Seeing the World Through the Eyes of a Child
July 22nd, 2008By Katia Grodecki
originally published on http://naturessecretwhispers.blogspot.com
You may have heard the advice to never lose the childish enthusiasm that is so valuable and so easily forgotten, often tossed aside along with fairytale books. When was the last time you truly experienced that sense of enthusiasm? As we grow older, the feeling of natural joy can easily become replaced with ‘grown up’ thoughts that may sometimes distort the picture, changing our experience. We need a gentle reminder to allow ourselves to re-discover the natural state of joy, and cherish this state to the best of our ability.
Think back to your childhood and the times when you saw something or someone for the first time, or when you first experienced something new. This may be the time when you first visited the zoo, pet a dog, swam in a lake or the sea, or when you tasted ice cream for the first time. Please try, for just a minute, to remember how you felt through those experiences. Remember the thrill and the joy you felt at tasting or seeing something new. If you, at this time, cannot recall the actual experience, perhaps you can imagine what it may have felt like. Additionally, by watching children on a playground, we may be able to recall many wonderful memories of our own childhood.
Although I would hope that many of us are still enthusiastic about the prospect of swimming in the sea, or eating a wonderful dessert, the sweetness of which fills our entire being with the same soothing taste, many of us simply forget to savour the moment and its spherical beauty that resonates in so many wonderful directions at the same time! Somehow, when life becomes busy and our minds are occupied with thoughts of arriving somewhere on time, preparing for an important meeting, or organizing our day, it is easy to completely dismiss the very important feeling of enthusiasm, allowing it to slip by us swiftly, unnoticed. And it’s not until later, when the worries and stress overwhelm us and we finally take a break, that we realize that simply by holding on to the joy and maintaining a positive point of view, the worries and stress of the everyday routine can actually disappear. After all, our state of mind governs the outcome of the day.
I would like to propose the following exercise:
Set the intention, each morning, of viewing each experience through the eyes of a child. When opening your eyes in the morning, pay attention to everything in the room and feel the joy of waking up to experience another day, with all the wonderful opportunities that it brings (these opportunities include the pleasant times, as well as the more challenging moments). View each day as an exciting adventure on which you are ready to embark.
On your way to work or school, notice ‘ordinary’ details. Take the time to actually savour what is around you, and marvel at the beauty of everything. When eating breakfast, lunch, dinner, or simply having a snack, pretend that you have never tasted food before. Pay attention to the texture, the flavour, the feeling in all parts of your body, as you enjoy the experience of eating.
See each familiar person as someone you have never met before in your life. Notice everything about the individual’s appearance, and find the beauty in the existence of everything and everyone, including your own existence. You may wish to play a game by imagining that you have just a moment ago met your partner or a dear friend, whom you have actually known for a long time. When sitting down to enjoy dinner, pay careful attention to the appearance of your friend or partner, to the sound of his or her voice and laughter, and cherish each moment you spend together.
Finally, when closing your eyes before falling asleep, clear your mind completely of any worries or thoughts about the day that has just passed and plans for the day that is to come. Instead, look forward to the exciting dreams that you are about to experience. Just for fun, count sheep as you drift off to sleep!
Enjoy every single moment and remember that each experience is what you make it. If we look closely, we might find that fairytales are made of the same substance that we all share in our personal lives. Instead of tossing that substance aside, if we invest a bit of extra time in cultivating our imagination, we will find that we are already blessed with magic.
Affirmation: From the moment I open my eyes in the morning until I close my eyes and prepare to rest for the night, I view the entire day through the eyes of a child. I fill my day with a sense of enthusiasm that follows me in everything I do and everywhere I go, reminding me that the gift of joy is always with me.